Mastering others is strength. Mastering yourself is true power.

DAILY REFLECTION

3 March 2025 - By Dr. Tan Tek Seng

“Whoever is slow to anger is better than the mighty, and he who rules his spirit than he that takes a city.”

Proverbs 16:32

A leader who can control their emotions and approach situations with patience is more effective than one who relies on force or intimidation.

The confrontation between Trump and Zelensky at the White House exemplifies how a lack of self-control and patience can result in suboptimal outcomes. Trump's eagerness for immediate action, combined with his failure to heed Zelensky's concerns, likely exacerbated the tension and led to unfavorable publicity. In contrast, President John F. Kennedy’s ability to stay composed and exercise restraint during the intense pressures of the 1962 Cuban Missile Crisis demonstrates the truth of the proverb. This critical event, regarded as one of the most dangerous moments in human history, brought the United States and the Soviet Union to the brink of nuclear conflict. By maintaining his calm and patience, Kennedy allowed for diplomatic discussions and ultimately achieved a peaceful resolution.

Proverbs 16:32 shows that self-control is a mark of true leadership and strength. It suggests that true strength lies not in external accomplishments but in mastering one's inner self.

“Mastering others is strength. Mastering yourself is true power."